What's Your Secret Relationship Self-Sabotage Pattern?

Discover the hidden pattern keeping you stuck in relationship déjà vu

Opening Section:

You know that sinking feeling when you realize you're doing it again...

Maybe you're pushing away someone who actually treats you well. Maybe you're making excuses for behavior you'd tell your friends to run from. Maybe you're recreating the exact same drama you swore you'd never repeat.

Whatever "it" is for you, you keep doing it.

And the most frustrating part? You can see yourself doing it, but you can't seem to stop.

Sound familiar?

You're not weak. You're not self-destructive. You're not "just bad at relationships."

You're running an unconscious self-sabotage pattern that's been protecting you since childhood.

The 4 Patterns Preview:

The Rescuer: You save everyone but yourself (then wonder why you attract energy vampires)

The Runner: You sabotage love when it gets too real (because intimacy feels like danger)

The Reflector: You mirror family dysfunction without realizing it (dating different people, same problems)

The Rationalizer: You accept crumbs and call it a feast (because you don't believe you deserve more)

Which one sounds like you?

Opening Section:

You know that sinking feeling when you realize you're doing it again...

Maybe you're pushing away someone who actually treats you well. Maybe you're making excuses for behavior you'd tell your friends to run from. Maybe you're recreating the exact same drama you swore you'd never repeat.

Whatever "it" is for you, you keep doing it.

And the most frustrating part? You can see yourself doing it, but you can't seem to stop.

Sound familiar?

You're not weak. You're not self-destructive. You're not "just bad at relationships."

You're running an unconscious self-sabotage pattern that's been protecting you since childhood.

Quiz Promise Section:

This 2-minute quiz reveals your specific self-sabotage pattern and why your nervous system created it.

You'll discover:

🔍 Your exact pattern and how it shows up in your relationships (prepare for some "holy shit" moments)

🔍 The childhood experience that created this pattern (it's not your fault, it's survival)

🔍 Why you keep attracting the same type of person (your nervous system has a type, and it's probably not healthy)

🔍 How this pattern is secretly sabotaging your happiness (even when you think you're making progress)

🔍 Your personalized roadmap to break free and create conscious love instead of unconscious patterns

The Hidden Truth Section:

Here's what most people don't realize: Every relationship "mistake" you make is actually your nervous system trying to keep you safe.

  • That amazing person you pushed away? Your nervous system saw vulnerability as danger.

  • Those red flags you ignored? Your nervous system recognized familiar dysfunction as "love."

  • That pattern you keep repeating? Your nervous system thinks it's the only way to survive relationships.

Your self-sabotage isn't random. It's systematic. And it follows one of 4 specific patterns.

Most relationship advice fails because it treats your patterns like conscious choices. But you can't think your way out of nervous system programming.

You have to identify your specific pattern first.

Transformation Promise Section:

What becomes possible when you break your pattern:

Instead of sabotaging good relationships, you'll feel safe staying present for love.

Instead of attracting users and energy vampires, you'll draw in people who are excited to give to you.

Instead of repeating your family's dysfunction, you'll create healthy patterns for future generations.

Instead of accepting crumbs, you'll feel worthy of the whole feast.

This isn't just about changing your love life. This is about reclaiming your power to choose conscious love over unconscious programming.

CTA Section:

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FAQ Section:

Q: What if I don't want to know my pattern? A: I get it. Sometimes awareness feels scary. But you can't change what you can't see. And your pattern is already running your life - you're just not conscious of it yet.

Q: Are these patterns permanent? A: Absolutely not. These are learned responses that can be unlearned. Your nervous system is incredibly adaptable - it just needs new information.

Q: What if I'm multiple patterns? A: Most people have one dominant pattern, but you might see yourself in others too. The quiz identifies your primary pattern so you know where to focus first.

Q: Is this going to tell me everything that's wrong with me? A: This isn't about what's wrong with you. It's about understanding how your brilliant nervous system learned to protect you, and helping it learn new ways to create safety.

Urgency/Stakes Section:

Here's what happens if you don't break your pattern:

You'll keep attracting the same type of person, just with different faces.

You'll waste more years giving your heart to people who can't appreciate it.

You'll pass these patterns on to the next generation without meaning to.

You'll look back and wonder why you settled for familiar dysfunction instead of fighting for extraordinary love.

Your pattern won't change on its own. But with awareness, it can change completely.